As we ate dinner, HOB told us he and Chickadee thru-hiked the PCT in 1976, shortly after they graduated from college. Then he showed us a photo of the two of them on the trail.
This made a deep impression with me, reminding me of photos of my wife and me and some of our adventures early in our marriage.
Later, after I was in my tent and preparing for bed, I thought more about the photo, as well as Chickadee and HOB. I admired them for their adventurous spirit, which obviously stayed with them all these years later. This older couple had good health and energy, and I could tell they still had a deeply caring and loving relationship after being together for more than 40 years.
How wonderful would it be to be like them when Kim and I are their age, I wondered.
Then suddenly I was struck by a realization. If that photo was taken soon after HOB and Chickadee graduated from college in 1976, that meant they were only about two years older than my wife and me. We graduated in 1978.
I had aspired for us to be like them, yet failed at first to recognize we already were.